The Fathers & The Role Players

One of the toughest jobs or roles a man will take up in his life, a job where you learn on the fly with no training, is the role of being a father.

Many times men find it easy to walk from their responsibility of fatherhood. Which adds fuel to the conversation of "men not being strong enough" to step up to their responsibilities.

While there is some validity in that statement, it is too broad and cannot be used to categorize all men as there are several good fathers out there.

Today I say happy father's day to all fathers and the role players that add or play the role of a father figure in a child’s life.

Main Stayer(s): The fathers that have been there from day one keep it up you are earning the claim to the name daddy. How about taking it one step further (based on the situation) and marrying that lady that gave you your most precious treasure.

Step Dads: Congrats to these guys for picking up the slack. Regardless of the situation with the child's father, you have decided to commit to the well being of this boy/girl. This situation is not easy as sometimes you may have children of your own. However, a commitment is a commitment, and you stand by that.

Grandads; We cannot forget these elders, always looking forward to seeing their grandkids, spoiling them rotten and leaving the parents to correct it :). We know you will always be there to look out for your family to lend a hand or share wisdom when needed.

Guardian Dads: The Uncles, God Fathers, etc. You have taken those titles seriously and made it your business to look after your Godchild, niece or nephew whether the daddy is there or not.

Single Fathers: We do not give enough recognition to the men who carry the sole responsibility of being the only parent in the household. What you do may be taken for granted now but it will be recognized later on.

Keep doing great work.

Next door Neighbor Dad: These guys willingly help out a single mothers situation and “nuff” respect to those that do it without any hidden agendas.

In and Outers Dads: It is not too late to be consistent guys. Try moving past the baby mama drama and focus on what is important, which is your child.

One of the biggest roles a man can ever undertake is fatherhood. It's the role of taking accountability for developing you children and family - Lyndon Brathwaite

Alive, but Non-Existent Dads: It will be all too easy to be negative with this category. However, their initial role in bringing a child into the world still has value. Because this child makes a difference in the lives of so many people, mom, auntie, uncle, cousin, friend, neighbour, teachers, etc.

Hopefully, they continue doing so throughout their life, and convert the negative of dad not being around into something positive.

Deceased Dads; Rest in Peace to those fathers who are no longer with us. Thank you for the work you did while you were here. Your contribution will forever live on in the hearts and minds of those you have touched.

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This part of life is one to enjoy and be serious about. Our children are a representation of us, our values, goals, ambitions, successes, etc. Every parent wants their child to be the best and make a positive impact on society.

Stand up fathers, stand up for your wife, girlfriend, children and most importantly yourself.

Claim your role as a father and do your best!

Happy Father's Day

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